Breaking Free from Limitations: Truly "Seeing"

What is real? What is false? In moments of extreme confusion, it’s hard to distinguish truth from falsehood, right from wrong. Suddenly, you might find yourself questioning everything you've relied on. Daily life and the events around you seem so real, yet what is revealed through constellation work feels even more real. What should you believe? What are you truly "seeing"? Who are you, really? In that brief moment, you may feel like you are everything and nothing at the same time. It’s as if time has stopped, and you are suspended in a void. Without the duality of right and wrong, there is simply observing. During the process of learning and participating, I deeply felt my own ignorance. In a constellation setting, how can we simply 'see' a point, a person, or an event without judgment, evaluation, or dualistic thinking? The past few days have made me more aware of how the mind operates unconsciously and habitually. I now understand how difficult it is to simply "see" without adding layers of interpretation. Finally, I grasp what my teacher meant when they constantly told me to "just see." Returning to Order I’ve discovered that the mind has a habit of asking questions, making choices, judging, and interpreting. During constellation work, when observing the representatives, I noticed how quickly I would define and judge based on their actions or expressions, which prevented me from seeing more broadly. My limited perspective hindered my ability to fully "see". This made me realize what arrogance truly is and how it influences our perceptions. I saw my own presumptuousness—the way I was fighting against a greater force, mistakenly believing I could change my parents or alter the course of life. I’ve come to understand the importance of sincere apology and returning to my rightful place, accepting all that life presents with respect and humility. Blind Love Through a constellation that started with "anger" and unfolded with the presentation of the representatives, I witnessed how a greater force guides us. I could feel an infinite expansion, gradually revealing the dynamics at play. By following this force, I saw how we love and in what order we express that love. In our family systems, each of us, in our own way, expresses loyalty, innocence, and blind love without even realizing it. It’s crucial for everyone in the system to return to their rightful place. Only when a person is in their rightful place can they be truly respected and find peace.

Happiness Coach Student: Yue Hong

Occupation: Pharmacist