Wife vs. Husband

Is your family like this too?

The wife loves to shop; the husband is frugal. The wife says she loves her husband, but the husband seems indifferent. The wife often worries about everything, to the point where she can’t sleep; the husband says, “I treat you well.” The couple’s values don’t align, which frustrates the wife, but the husband doesn’t seem to know what to do. Wife: I know there’s nothing to worry about, but I just feel anxious.

Facilitator: Are you worried because your husband is a good man, handsome, and admired by other women?

Husband's representative: I chose you.。 Facilitator: This sounds like kids arguing. What you’re really anxious about are the unspoken issues. Wife: I have spoken up, like when my son drops food on the floor, and my husband tells him to pick it up and eat it. I think that’s unhygienic… Facilitator: That’s marriage—two families with different habits. So, it’s even more important to communicate. Next time food drops on the floor, pick it up, give it to your husband, and say, “Don’t waste food.” No need to be so serious. Respect your husband’s family habits and add your own touch. You’ll get along much better! For example, buy something your husband likes but cannot bear to buy. Wife: He’ll still complain.

Facilitator: He might, but that’s just him. Next time, buy him some clothes and say, “I got you a gift! (Tell him it was $500 when it was really $2000). You’ll look great in it.” And when you’re in bed at night, secretly smile to yourself (because that jacket actually cost $2000). Use your wisdom to create a more harmonious home life.

Here’s another tip: buy something for your mother-in-law. Both families have their strengths, so respect them and find a balance. (This is the secret to a successful marriage.)